I relate very strongly to this. My dad left when I was one and tried to take everything with him – the house that he didn’t pay for, the car (basically everything except me haha). Occasionally he would turn up to harrass the family again and I always believed it didn’t bother me but only […]
Sometimes it’s not the father’s fault but the situation that caused the father to have to leave. I was married to a woman who cheated on me we had children I wanted to still be part of their lives but mom kept blocking my visitation time and court orders meant nothing for Dear Santa just […]
I know. It was mean. I was scared. Worried. Waiting to be accepted into a homeless program. A transitional shelter, because after that incident with Adopt A Baby Yoda T Shirt, things were even more unbearable. Six months after staying with my brother, about four months after I last spoke with my father, in March […]
“Even though I don’t care now, maybe it’s impacted me in a way that I’ve yet to discover.” – I know this feeling so well. I hit new stages of Charlie Hunnam Today I don’t feel like doing anything except Jax Teller tee shirt and all of the sudden I have old feelings and flashbacks […]
Not every one is meant to stay in our lives forever, as sad as it may seem maybe he was doing the right thing he may have had behavioural issues that could have harmed you or he was sent away… When we only ever go what we’ve heard from one side it’s not the Baby […]
Anyway, fast forward many years later, with All in need today a little a bit of Deftones and a whole lot of Jesus 2020 T-Shirt, having 4 children, with 3 of them, grown and on their own, and my youngest son, 16 with me. In 2009, due to unforseen circumstances, I lost my job and […]
Well, mom got upset. Wrote me a letter telling me that it was an insult and a “slap in the face” that I would not allow her son to use my son’s body wash. And that All I Need Is Coffee and My Dog It Is Too Peopley Outside Grinch Mugs shitrt, once I found […]
I’ve never had any relationship whatsoever with my father and yet i’ve always seen him gone past him my whole primary and high school and university life. I will never forget the day he told me never to see him again,telling me that right through my eye and the said part I was a very […]
Your life’s purpose is to learn forgiveness and he as your father has has done this to offer you this opportunity. It does bother you now or you wouldn’t be discussing it or denying it. I have been through the exact same situation and at 45, I am finally learning to forgive him for Corgi […]
I’m definitely not doubting you but I hope you not caring is you being true to yourself and something you truly believe. These men were our fathers at one point, and even though they are no longer in our lives, we will always be connected. I’ve had my step dad in my life for Eric […]
My dad has been a deadbeat his whole life.I dont remember a minute in my childhood where he provided anything.My mom did everything for us.She worked hard while my dad got drunk every night then come home late and beat up my mom. We would sleep in the Factually inaccurate Morally correct the Babylon Bee […]
I did find him quite easily in fact and it was then that I began to realise that his abandonment was about his survival not as much as what he felt about me. You have to be in deep survival mode to leave everything and everyone behind and I have streaks of that Feliz Navidog […]
I feel this way sometimes, given a similair circumstance. I think back and realise that it possibly did affect me a lot as a child, not having a father. I used to imagine what I would do if I ever saw him, how I could turn him away, reject him. Right now – it doesnt […]
I’m going through the same situation. I haven’t seen my father since I was 2 and just drove to an address last weekend (currently 26) I found out he may be living at. I knocked a few times and nothing. So i began to inquire about him through neighbors and no one knows him. I […]
I’ve learned the very hard way that even family has no place in your life if it’s not conducive to your happiness, wellbeing and peace of mind. I know the absence of Grinch I want to drink draw your blood shirt, and the recent loss of my mother to her prejudices has scarred me even […]