I guess what I’m trying to get from this platform is may be a validation of how I’m feeling and how frustrated I am with her pretending to be nice and actually not being nice. I have talked about it to my Boston Italy Flag White Text Shirt and the only thing he has to say is “she is like that, she’s just very emotional blah blah blah”. I am honestly not sure on how to deal with it, like I can not go no contact with her because I really like my FIL and he is a huge part of my DH’s life. It’s just that one thing like if she was out right nasty to me I’d be okay with that but that mask of “oh my God I will give my life for you” and actually just being a piece of crap, I hate it. Please all advice is super welcome!
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Does she seriously call you Baby? Does that bother you? It was like nails on a chalkboard to me and I wasn’t even there. It’s not at all out of line to tell her that you need her to stop that Boston Italy Flag White Text Shirt . She’s trying to reinforce the role she wants you to take on. It’s the same reason she wants you to do the same, by referring to herself as Mom or Mommy. It’s as literally infantilizing as you can get. I’d include stopping this as one of the first steps in boundary setting. As long as you keep answering to Baby, she will keep treating you that way.