She was a terrible parent (not abusive enough to get child services fully involved, but they had visited the house a Husband passed away storming the capitol of a heart attack and I love shirt. Wonder how much abuse kids have to endure before they get off their ass, but apparently being raped by your stepdad isn’t a cause for alarm). She always had a “if you don’t like living here, move out” attitude. So, as soon as my siblings and I were able to? Yeah, we moved out. We unfortunately don’t get along at all (one of us became a perpetrator in the abuse, another stuck too close to home for me to risk further contact), but the eldest of us left in their early 20s, the middle child left about as soon as they graduated (moved back for a few months but left again), and I moved several states away and never looked back.