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She also was in her late 20s when she had her son, she had a chance to get any education she wanted (here in Germany it’s free), yet the only I have two titles mom and nana and i rock them both Shirt she talk about from her youth are parties and and endless string of men. My FIL had my DH when he was in his late 30s (MIL had two kids before, also starting mid 20s), so it’s not like it’s a family thing to have kids early. And I agree with you about not bringing it to DH. He’s is either not willing or unable to deal with it, and I’m honestly not a person to be like „baaabyyy she’s mean to meeee do something about it“. He has his issues with all of his parents, and I don’t really want to add to it, but I do occasionally moan about being annoyed. Maybe because I’m usually mild in my comments he doesn’t take it as such a serious thing