I married an engineer who was a car and motorcycle nut. Talked about them incessantly. Then he morphed into a bicycle Solange shirt . We own several dozen bikes, including a few e-bikes. He recently retired. He bought a Dyson vacuum cleaner. We already own a half-dozen vacuum cleaners that he won’t part with. It was then that I realized that he has a thing for vacuum cleaners. After looking at him strangely for several weeks as he vacuumed, I asked him why he spent so much money on a vacuum cleaner. He said, “Because it works so well. You should see the stuff I got off the walls!” Who the hell vacuums walls?
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Think about the thought process for getting one’s wife a new washer dryer: “Hmm what should i get my Solange shirt ? What does she like or spend a lot of time doing? She does laundry a lot (for the whole family), i bet she’ll like a new one of those!” This would be a guy who is not recognizing the fact that his wife does laundry a lot because its something that needs to be done a lot, and has made it part of his image of her. Buying one as a gift not only points out that view of his wife, but excentuates the uneven dynamic of housework where one partner has so much of the workload it has become part of their identity in the eyes of the other. In effect it comes off as instead of a husband buying his wife a gift, he is buying her better working conditions