I brought this phenomenon up to my bf recently (he doesn’t cheat on me, we were just talking) and he assumed that Womens Mama Mommy Mom Bruh Mommy And Me Funny Boy Mom Life T Shirt choose to cheat with ugly women because their self esteem is so low that they’ll keep the secret and agree to be a side chick. If he truly liked her better he would just leave you for her. He goes to her for his own selfish reasons and it gives her a confidence boost because he’s lusting for her rather than his more attractive gf. She’s winning a little battle and he’s convinced her that’s all she needs. She’s less likely to jeopardize the situation by outing him. Of course this doesn’t always work because humans are complex creatures with emotions; but for the time that it’s working for both of them they won’t consider the future or anyone else’s feelings because they are small people with short sight. Best to tell your bf to start walking and don’t worry about the other woman. There will ALWAYS be people willing to help someone cheat. Your (hopefully ex) bf is completely to blame.